Wednesdays didn't start off this way, but have evolved into me staying at home with the kids and saying "no" to most outside of the house activities- my "no" day. Anyone with kids can probably agree that getting the kids out of the house is good for so many reasons, but this summer I found myself just tired. Dog tired and I think it was because I was running around and never stopping to rest until I just fell into bed at night. I felt like I could sing my own version of this song:
And as much as I wish I could be as social as some of my friends- I just can't keep up. I also wondered what kind of example that was setting for our kids to always be running around all the time, every day. Deep down I am kind of a home body and in some ways I would like our kids to be also. I want them to know how to rest at home, but also how to be self entertained. So back in June I waved the white flag of surrender and dedicate Wednesays as my at home Bailey activity day. All I wanted to accomplish was one activity with her. Something like playdough, or painting, or play pretend kitchen with her for an hour. Silly I know because these are easy activities, but I crave routines and if I didn't set aside a day for this, then the distractions of the world seem to overtake all my time. Well, it didn't take long for me to some results I liked- Bailey doesn't expect to get out of the house everyday and has alot longer attention span with activites at home. I found that staying at home for one day out of the week is relaxing and that's when we started staying home for the day. Am I still tired? Yes, but is gives me a small break in the middle of the week. Does our house get really messy? Yes, but having set chores like cleaning up toys at the end of the day is my next project for the Fall. And, I have to be really disciplined with my other days to be able to do this. Anyways, I just wanted to share this because I am probably not the only person trying to do too much. Staying at home one day out of the week might not work for your family, but hopefully you can find something that does give you a break.